12 Beliefs that are restraining to you of your own success
The success is not something that is obtained overnight.
From always, I have known that to be successful a series of factors as the preparation is required, to have discipline, to have persistence and attitude towards which we want to obtain.
But of recent way, I have understood that beyond the knowledge and the habits, we must take into account that the mentality is what constructs our life. We can see it as if our brain was hardware and our mentality, software. And altogether, they tell us how to work, what to do and in what believing.
Although, when we thought time and time again, in all the obstacles that could prevent our reach to the success, our realities begin to reflect indeed what we thought; nevertheless, if we decided to undo of those beliefs and we strived to rewrite them, we can discover that the change of mentality, changes our form to live.
Next, I share 12 beliefs to you obstacles that could be preventing your own success:
1. To hope that the things arrive
A detrimental attitude is to think that you deserve the things.
If you remain hoping at that the profits arrive or at that somebody more you those of, without moving a single finger, you are going away to be waiting for long time.
2. To be satisfied to little
If you feel to taste with little, you will obtain little.
If you have a disinterested attitude to improve, if you do not feel the inspiration to treat new things or to leave beyond your zone of comfort, you will not obtain a life of success and greatness.
3. To want to only do it all
It does not matter that so intelligent and working you are, often, is necessary to surround itself by the best ones to devise something better. To have the attitude to want to do it all only demonstrates your degree of perfectionism, something that can prevent to you to achieve the success.
4. Not to face the change
The change is something difficult to prevent and you must be arranged to adapt you to the realities that to you are appeared, as well as to have an attitude search to make different things. It always thinks that the change can bring the opportunities to you to achieve the success that not yet you have obtained. Take advantage of them all!
5. To want many things and not to do them
If you aspire to many things and you want to obtain them all without doing much on the matter, I must tell you that you will be very far from reaching them. The successful ones simply do not achieve their objectives to want to obtain them, but to have the attitude to make the things reality.
6. To want to make things to please to the others
Often, we worried about what will think the others than we do, or if our actions will fortify healthy and positive relations, if our work will be respected and appreciated¦
It remembers that your thoughts are very powerful and if you decide to exclusively focus in your actions and objectives, the others comes very well.
7. To feel to you that sufficiently you are not described to obtain what you want
The majority of the times, is not that it worries to us not to have the sufficient preparation to obtain something but the one that another person says it to us. We are we ourself those that we must think that we are able to reach great things, under our own terms.
8. To think that you do not have the economic solution to obtain it
We will never achieve the success if we are always thinking about which we do not have to reach it. It is necessary to change the mentality and to think about the money that we can be saving or other ways to handle better our finances, while we are developing a strategy to be working our objectives.
9. To think that you will be judged to make the things differently
We must think that when defying the norms, we will inspire to many more people.
10. To think that your problems will be solved with time single
Perhaps the simple problems are solved single, but the greatest problems require persistence, daily plans of action; then otherwise, they can get worse.
11. To feel that the things do not leave as you wanted
If we have the mentality of which everything in the life always will be difficult, he will be complicated to advance towards which we set out. We must think that there will always be people with smaller possibilities or in worse circumstances than it obtains his goals. The key is to think that if we worked constantly, we can achieve our objectives.
12. To be scared to the failure
This usually happens because we are to the expectation to live a single change that alters our course of life totally, when in fact, they must be small changes, day to day. It is important that you do not lose the hope and you are consisting of each thing that you decide to try.